HAPPY FATHER'S DAY

Do you know that any mature man can be a dad but it takes some pleasure to be a father?

A father is the head of the family. A family with the presence of a father is always good since he acts as a security in the family. When a kid is growing he or she thinks that no stranger or a robber for instance can intrude the home when the father is around. A father is also a mentor at home in the act of providing financial , economic, emotional and spiritual support. You may not be surprised to hear a kid say ,'When I grow up I just want to be like daddy because he's always caring for our family.' A father should always be encouraging his family to be religious and ensure the kids grow up spiritually and morally upright. Father's Day is such an honorable day to express the good work that all the father's do to ensure their families are in good order. This day is also very important to challenge those fathers who never take charge of their responsibilities. Wherever there is a presence of a father and mother in a family there's always parental care and love. Fathers also act as church elders to inspire the youth into becoming respectable people in the society. Fathers also lead in social activities like weddings, dowry payments and some of them are clan leaders and this makes them very superior people in the society in instilling discipline and guidance to the people in the society.

photo of my dad with the family.

My father is called Justin Mugendi. As i grew up i knew that my father is the most strict person I have ever met in my life and not only is he strict, but also a very understanding man. My father always wanted me to be a very disciplined lady as I grew up. I always feared him, that's why I ensured I did all he expected me to do. Having my father is such a blessing that I account for in my lifetime. He has been supporting me in my life and always corrected me wherever I made a mistake. When I was young, my father used to take me to places to enjoy myself, always buying me dolls and gifts wherever I performed well in school. trust me i did always worked very hard to ensure that my father bought me some gifts for my good work. Whenever I performed poorly my father always encouraged me to work smart to achieve my goals and I could always recall his words that, 'my daughter you're a very bright student and am proud to be your father.' His words always motivated me to become the best .He also ensured that I could never miss attending Sunday school every Sunday. He is also a good cook since he always cooks ugali at home during the weekends. Whenever I need some advice my father is always my first priority and am always comfortable to share my personal problems with him . He likes telling stories so much so you can never be bored when my father is around you, My father works very hard to ensure that we never lack anything in our family and he is always a man that every woman desires to have since he always support my mother and the family at large,

Have you ever been with a deadbeat father in your lifetime?

Father's Day is a very special day to appreciate all the responsible fathers in the world. On this day I usually spend time at home with my father together with my family members where we cook many delicacies and buy gifts for my father to make him feel proud and also appreciate his efforts towards the family, I know some people have never had a father figure in their life but from that they should ensure they give it to their kids by ensuring they have good and responsible marriage partners for the sake of their kids. Neglecting your roles as a father is one of the biggest mistakes one can make since it really sounds cool to see your kids succeed in their life because you will be enjoying the fruits of your labour . When you become a responsible father you motivate your kids to work hard to be like you. Every man who is a father should take his responsibilities like expected for the sake of the kids' future. When children are brought up by a struggling mother they develop a very negative attitude towards men and this may affect their marital status in future. All the responsible fathers should be taken good care of and be respected to improve their self worth and appreciate the work they do for their families,

Fathers Day should always be a remarkable day that should be treasured to make all the fathers feel their worth and to appreciate the commitment they do to ensure their families are in good order. This day is also very important to encourage the deadbeat fathers to always take their roles and be selfless through supporting their families and children for the betterment of their growth.